I don’t think I have ever seen such a pristine example of someone telling on himself.
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Aside from Ben Shapiro and his rant about WAP, I mean. That remains the gold standard.
Every morning, looking in the mirror:
“j’accuse!”
Yeah, buddy, that guy on the other side of the glass is the problem.
What is Wap?
It stands for Wet Ass Pussy, implying a woman is sexually aroused, as a woman’s vagina (pussy) self lubricates (becomes wet) when she is interested and excited about the prospect of having sexual intercourse. ‘Ass’ being used as an additional descriptor to imply that the ‘pussy’ is extremely ‘wet’
A song by Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion.
Thanks a lot! I am not from the US so many times I struggle to follow in new cultural contexts.
Benefit of the doubt here, but it could be that she was off medication or undiagnosed for something during their time together. There’s not a lot to go on
Divorcing my husband certainly allowed me to take the time to go on and be diagnosed.
Turns out having a man downplay your symptoms, call you a hypochondriac, and tell you that you can just force yourself to not be depressed is a real detriment to a healthy life.
So yeah. There’s not a lot to go on here. We could all project our own stories onto it give or take.
But I do think most of us as women recognize that the subjugation of our sex over time has set up this type of scenario time and time again. To gain freedom after being in a relationship that drains you is not even a gender specific feeling, I think women generally experience it on a different level.
…did you seriously just pull the “wife must have mental issues” card?
He’s so close. So, so close.
I have the same issue. With my garden.
I try to give the fruit bushes everything, but they refuse to even attempt living. Shade or sun, doesn’t matter. Too little water, too much water, always fainting in the most dramatic manner.
The only things that thrive in my garden are the wild papavers. I never touch them. Other more serious gardeners have difficulty even growing them, but me, I just let them live. I wish I could do the same to the fruit bushes that I actually want.
I always tell people that if they have some invasive weed they absolutely cannot get rid of, there’s an easy solution.
Explain to me how the plant was originally grown by your great-great grandmother and how it’s been passed down the family for generations, and that you need me to take care of it while you’re on vacation.
Have you checked your soil type with a jar test?
I know poppies really like sandy soil types, which some trees and shrubs may find troublesome, because sandy soil flushes nutrients like crazy.
They also do well in poor nutrient soils due to the longer taproot, like Comfrey does
Feed your soil.
Soil, microbiome, synergies, insects. Isoflourines and locusts in particular are good for fruit trees.
be that woman for me
Buddy.
Buddy.OOF.
Come on, buddy. Two more paragraphs.
Love to see it.
The best thing some people can give another person is their absence.
I really do enjoy how everyone is judging the poster on whatever their headcanon says happens when basically no Detail has been given.
Yeah, people always want to find blame. Maybe they just didn’t belong together. Though the one detail we have is that this poster doesn’t seem to want to accept that the ex was doing poorly because of the relationship, whatever the reason.
I know who this guy voted for.
His wife probably told him, and if she didn’t in a effort to save things that is on her. Communicate to people so they know how bad they’ve fucked up if you want them to get better.
Did you really come into a women’s only community and proceed to blame the woman in the screenshot?
No other context. You just decided it’s the woman’s fault.
To be fair, the first thing they said is that it’s probably the husband’s fault. Then follows an alternative
Nah their first statement still put the responsibility on the wife.
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When she did communicate, he called it a tantrum. Plus, he left her.
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Mutual friends. Jesus christ, you gonna make THEM choose who to be friends with because YOUR marriage was shit?
Get over yourself.
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- You could just stay friends instead
- If you don’t, why should you be the only one catering to the other’s desire for distance? She could also stay at home
It was a mutual friend
My ex wife and I are still on friendly terms. I don’t think we have any mutual friends anymore since she left the state but I’d absolutely go to major life events, like if her brother got married, funerals, hell, if she ever got married again I’d be petty surprised if I wasn’t invited, although she is fairly adamant that she doesn’t have the capacity to live with anyone again. We’ve both grown and changed over the decades and continue to do so. What seems crazy to me is the people that loved each other enough to get married at some point in their life and then start acting like shit or hurting each other. The way some people talk makes me even happier I chose to marry my ex wife. We don’t talk every day or even every week but if either of us ever needed anything, it would be no questions asked.
Mutual friends. I wouldn’t be dropping good friends just because I got divorced. Obviously, we wouldn’t be doing things as a couple, but we could still hang.
