• bluegreenpurplepink@lemmy.world
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    18 days ago

    She’s a keeper. You’re lucky. She’s letting you know what irritates her, and how to avoid aggravating her again and also providing a way to make it up to her. This is the way to a harmonious life.

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      17 days ago

      “happy wife happy life” seems so… antiquated though.

      edit i think my viewpoint might be because my parents were both born in the early 1950s and very much reinforce the “boomer” stereotypes. i think both people in a partnership should be happy, to be clear.

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        17 days ago

        How so? I derive great joy from bringing joy to my loved ones. Love and happiness is greater when shared with others.

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        17 days ago

        There’s truth in the saying though, since doing something nice to someone else feels good. And if that someone is a loved one, who you likely spend a lot of your time with/around, then that feeling is amplified.

        Also it’s much more fun to spend time with people who are in a good mood than them being in a sour one.