• Lady Butterfly she/her@reddthat.com
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      Hi Rockbottom welcome to WomensStuff! We are a trans inclusive women only community and ask cis men don’t post. Please check out the rules pinned to the top of the group ❤️

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      Ugh, like yes explicitly training to be hyper aware is bad and causes anxiety.

      But like, many societies will just teach this via the education/social systems.

      And in some societies being a woman and not being aware of how to react to flirt/class/advancement is not just getting yelled at but can end up with jail/physical violence where you are in the wrong.

      I’m all for making powerful men get to the hyper awareness so that we can change this bull crap.

      But I don’t like blaming a mother/parent for teaching their children how to survive the world they live in.

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      Doing bad things is also bad. If I murder someone my parents won’t be on trial.

      • RockBottom@feddit.orgBanned from community
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        If you a raise your daughter to be a Barbie doll you should be on trial.

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          What’s wrong with being Barbie? She’s smart, cool, has a huge wardrobe, a large variety of careers, and loves her friends.

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      And yet they also raise daughters who recognise the wrongness and speak and act against it. Almost like there’s an element of autonomy in your average human