• velma@sh.itjust.works
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    17 hours ago

    Really?

    No, most people wouldn’t approach another person alone at night.

    This isn’t a gotcha question. Leave women alone.

        • lad@programming.devBanned from community
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          14 hours ago

          That’s why I said I wouldn’t avoid men [unlike women], that’s the difference

            • lad@programming.devBanned from community
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              13 hours ago

              Whatever I say it turns out wrong, right? I just saw the statistics from my home country today, men do 5 times more crimes than women, not just violence, that doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t approach any of them at all

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                13 hours ago

                Considering you’re being pedantic about a real issue that women face in a women’s only community, yeah, whatever you’re saying here is coming out wrong.

                • lad@programming.devBanned from community
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                  13 hours ago

                  I was just trying to say that I would try to act non threatening toward a woman, while probably won’t care much about that with a man

                  And I don’t think I was pedantic, but you’re the judge of that, not I, that’s true

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                    12 hours ago

                    You’re being pedantic in a community you’re not even supposed to be in.

                    The earlier replies probably confused you because people were acting like you were a woman. Because this is the woman’s community.

                  • velma@sh.itjust.works
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                    13 hours ago

                    Apologies for being blunt with you, but it’s really frustrating to have people come in on these types of threads and “well actually” at us. You’re being really nitpicky about it and let’s just be real here - most people avoid others alone at night as they should.