• lad@programming.devBanned from community
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        3 days ago

        That’s why I said I wouldn’t avoid men [unlike women], that’s the difference

          • lad@programming.devBanned from community
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            3 days ago

            Whatever I say it turns out wrong, right? I just saw the statistics from my home country today, men do 5 times more crimes than women, not just violence, that doesn’t mean that I wouldn’t approach any of them at all

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              3 days ago

              Considering you’re being pedantic about a real issue that women face in a women’s only community, yeah, whatever you’re saying here is coming out wrong.

              • lad@programming.devBanned from community
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                I was just trying to say that I would try to act non threatening toward a woman, while probably won’t care much about that with a man

                And I don’t think I was pedantic, but you’re the judge of that, not I, that’s true

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                  You’re being pedantic in a community you’re not even supposed to be in.

                  The earlier replies probably confused you because people were acting like you were a woman. Because this is the woman’s community.

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                  2 days ago

                  Apologies for being blunt with you, but it’s really frustrating to have people come in on these types of threads and “well actually” at us. You’re being really nitpicky about it and let’s just be real here - most people avoid others alone at night as they should.