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Reactive abuse. They provoke you (intentionally or unintentionally) and then act like you’re the problem when you have a normal human reaction to their bullshit.
It’s toddler behavior
It is incredibly immature, absolutely agree. Rarely ever not intentional, though. And even when it’s not intentional, it’s inherently emotionally immature and toxic behaviour built into the framework so insidiously the whole structure is rotten. Absolutely a sign that entire person belongs in the bin, unredeemable.
Or you react, but calmly but assertively and all of the sudden you “raised your voice” or you were “rude for no reason.” Hmm.
“don’t you know your only job is to look beautiful!?” Yes, that’s been said to me.
“Uncivil”
Piss.
Oh, shit, how could I forget the new “unladylike.”
Omg used to get this from fam jokingly but still holy shit so fucking annoying “unladylike” fucking bs
It’s a tactic and it’s fucking horrible
Oh, my. It’s like you just called out my life to about age 35.
I don’t have too many in my life and my mental health has greatly improved from not dealing with this in the past years. I don’t know if it’s just a pitfall of close relationships or poor ones, as I’m a bit of a loner.
Can you serve us that tea while it is still hot?
Or do we get the iced version?
I hate male stoicism so much
Don’t engage with pieces of shit. Just walk away. That’s my strategy anyway.
