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Cake day: July 2nd, 2023

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  • Yes I read it and you focus on her appearance and her success. You don’t mention any details in your op about why she matters to you beyond how your friends and family perceive her.

    You describe wanting a partner to settle down with and yet you fail to mention any reasons beyond her appearance for why her logistics are meaningful.

    You ask if you if you are a fool to consider that you should love someone more deeply than their “logistics”.

    So yes, I did read what you wrote about her. You seem conflicted between an attractive partner and finding someone you love.

    You don’t seem to love her, you love her features.


  • The logistics couldn’t be better but I feel a lack of love/spark.

    I don’t get it, I said you don’t sound like you love her enough and you seem to agree. You keep talking about logistics as if you are looking for a new job and picking between remote work and moving to a new city.

    I understand both are important to you, but you keep saying that only one side is meeting your needs.

    Either you are willing to be in a less than love filled relationship for the convenience and status it brings you, or you desire the intimate connection you arent getting. You have to decide. I’m just telling you what I’m seeing from your words, essentially a business deal.

    What happens when the “logistics” falter? Are you willing to compromise your self admitted desire for more? Are you willing to be unsatisfied in the emotional and romantic connection department just because your friends think she’s hot?