• werty@sh.itjust.worksBanned from community
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    9 days ago

    Consensual non consent is literally portraying rape as something the victim enjoys and absolutely justifies rape fantasies from both sexes. Yeah I’m fetish shaming and I 'm not sorry. There was a guy who enjoyed hammering nails into his dick and his pleasure didn’t make it mentally healthy. Women who are into rape fantasy encourage rape. Now ban me.

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      8 days ago

      Again, difference is that the “victim” in the scene is in control. There’s quite a few people that have had their past traumas come through as kinks in this way, but it’s not anything like porn that portrays rape as a positive for the victim and what they want. I’m not even sure if I’m explaining the differences very well here tbh, but there are differences between the two.

      I respect that you have a difference of opinion on this though. Why would I ban you? *Oh, you’re a man…

      Edit: The fantasy of being raped and of being a rapist are distinct in my opinion.

      Edit 2: The consensual part in CNC is the most important part.