Just saw this while scrolling on fedi being posted by this user: @Rasta@zeroes.ca

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      So you know the rules. You know your posting here is against the rules. And you decided to post here anyway to whine about the rules and about how your posting here is against them, daring us, in effect, to delete your post.

      And somehow this makes you a good person.

      You then proceed to make your masculine self the main character in a women’s group, whining about your “genital mutilation”.

      And somehow this makes you a good person and those who want to have a space to themselves bad.

      Yes, you’re very obviously an “ally”.

      You utter fucking berk.

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      !feminism@lemmy.world is rather active and we can make it more so if you truly want to discuss these types of subjects with all genders. Maybe someone else has a better community suggestion.

      None of the community members here told you those things or said you were mansplaining. Please do not paint us all with the same brush.

      Please respect that women and femme and non-binary people want a space to discuss with each other in a safe and supportive community.

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          Please, I’m begging you, read the comment sections of several posts here. You’ll be able to see how polite and respectful we are to men who accidentally post. We don’t extend warm reminders to men who leave sexist or dismissive or otherwise rude comments.

          I’d rather you look for yourself than make assumptions and comment based on those assumptions.

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              I mean, you are repeatedly breaking the rules. That is disrespectful. You could have sent me a DM instead of commenting further.

              As you can see if you look around at the other comments, men who politely leave (or do not have a previous reputation of being jerks to us) are not shouted at but rather acknowledged as allies for respecting the rules.

              At this point I’m not so sure you’re willing to change your mind about us. It would be best for you to go now.