• Drusas@fedia.io
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      18 days ago

      Yes, after the fact.

      Edit: To be clear, I appreciate that you intended for your initial comment to be benign and aimed only at childfree women who are militant and rude about it. However, I do not think that you appreciate how your comment was not benign in its choice of wording.

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        18 days ago

        And how benign does it seem when you keep pressing it after the explanation?

        (Hint: not even slightly.)

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          17 days ago

          This thread is supposed to be about women supporting one another.

          I replied to someone who was not being supportive of other women and who then replied without seeming to understand how what they said was not supportive of other women.

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        18 days ago

        And you chose to make mention of your offense and I explained myself because I did not intend to offend childfree women who aren’t assholes about their choice.

        We can’t extend some grace to each other even on a post about women supporting each other?

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          17 days ago

          I just extended said grace to you. I acknowledged that you did not mean for your words to sound harmful. I didn’t expect you to get angry or defensive about me expressing my acceptance and explaining why your words might be offensive to other people.