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This honestly doesn’t sound like they’re projecting at all - they speak of their own experience. I think they’re upset because you’ve said that biological attributes would “disagree” with an honest insight into their life’s experience.

Their mother - the person who acted in a motherly role in their life. The person who raised them, cared for them, helped them grow - is not product of biological attributes.

Yeah it’s exactly that. And “Fork found in kitchen” is like saying “Is the pope catholic” or sarcastically “I’ll alert the media” about stuff that really isn’t surprising.