Viktoria (They/She)@lemmy.ca to Relationship Advice@lemmy.worldEnglish · 4 months ago(Texts between us) So what is happening here exactly? I know I’m in the wrong now but am I gaslighting her??message-squaremessage-square3linkfedilinkarrow-up10arrow-down11file-text
arrow-up1-1arrow-down1message-square(Texts between us) So what is happening here exactly? I know I’m in the wrong now but am I gaslighting her??Viktoria (They/She)@lemmy.ca to Relationship Advice@lemmy.worldEnglish · 4 months agomessage-square3linkfedilinkfile-text
Nichole is gray, my gf. I am the bluish. She says I’ve been spending too much time with my ex who is also my best friend
minus-squareGardenVarietyAnxiety@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·4 months agoYou seem pretty clearly interested in Max. If you’re not into her, you need to end it. If you are into her, you’re gonna need to prioritize her. That’s what she needs right now. Edit, just to add: She would also need to work on not being dependent on your attention if that is or becomes an issue.
minus-squareViktoria (They/She)@lemmy.caOPlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0arrow-down1·4 months agoThanks. We just broke up.
minus-squareGardenVarietyAnxiety@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·4 months agoI hope this is fake. If not, there is no way you’re oblivious to the nature of your actions, and you should probably talk to someone.
You seem pretty clearly interested in Max. If you’re not into her, you need to end it.
If you are into her, you’re gonna need to prioritize her. That’s what she needs right now.
Edit, just to add: She would also need to work on not being dependent on your attention if that is or becomes an issue.
Thanks. We just broke up.
I hope this is fake. If not, there is no way you’re oblivious to the nature of your actions, and you should probably talk to someone.