She already began transferring some of her assets to my older brother

Okay fine then I’ll live on

I’ll live in spite…

I want my half… why does my older gets stuff and I don’t

He doesn’t even love my mom as much I does

He never even showed any affection, I did… all the time…

Like is my mom really gonna just pretend I didn’t love her?

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    12 days ago

    Do what you have to to survive in the near term, but work towards eventual independence if you don’t like your life being the way it is. If you’re always counting on financial support then that will always be something that can get used to control you.

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        12 days ago

        While we’re always going to be subject to coercion, there are degrees and it’s often possible to get it to be less. Personally I’ve had way less conflicts and disagreements with my parents since I got to a point in my life where I won’t need money from them. In work stuff, it makes a huge difference being in a secure enough position that your life will not fall apart if you quit or fire a client when it’s necessary. It shouldn’t work this way, but control over your life is something you can buy, and it’s really the only thing worth buying.