When i used to date i always postponed the first date on a somewhat short notice with an excuse and observed the reaction. Most guys where cool and understanding but some where actually pissed. So i was always happy i did that test.
I learned that when I was accidentally fifteen minutes late and the guy straight up left and complained. Thing was I told him I was having issues with my bike and had called a cab, so I might be late. Dodged a bullet, there.
Since then I’m always late to a first date (with explanation) just to see if they’re the kind of guy who loses their shit.
yes it’s saver to do such a test. I think i came up with it in a similar way like you. like i had to shift a date because i wasn’t feeling well and the guy wasn’t too happy about it. So it became a standard safety check.
When i used to date i always postponed the first date on a somewhat short notice with an excuse and observed the reaction. Most guys where cool and understanding but some where actually pissed. So i was always happy i did that test.
I learned that when I was accidentally fifteen minutes late and the guy straight up left and complained. Thing was I told him I was having issues with my bike and had called a cab, so I might be late. Dodged a bullet, there.
Since then I’m always late to a first date (with explanation) just to see if they’re the kind of guy who loses their shit.
yes it’s saver to do such a test. I think i came up with it in a similar way like you. like i had to shift a date because i wasn’t feeling well and the guy wasn’t too happy about it. So it became a standard safety check.