Some things I fucking hated at 13 and 14 are dope as fuck now too, tho.

I think you’re describing experiencing nostalgia.

when i was 13. we had a whole culture about expressing and living yourself fully. albeit its not free of being called names because of things we liked but it sidnt stop us.

i dont see any similar vibe from the youngster these days and the only one i noticed are the ‘cringe’ culture.