Transcript: A woman having sex to avoid sulking, tantrums, passive aggression, guilt-tripping or abandonment is not consenting — she’s being coerced. That’s not a relationship. That’s sexual servitude under emotional duress, and far too many women have been conditioned to believe this is what compromise looks like. It’s not.

  • CultLeader4Hire@lemmy.world
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    3 days ago

    And if you point it out he just says “no I’m not” and that’s the end conversation cause you’ll get more of the same for daring to speak up about it.

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        2 days ago

        Wow, so much this. I’ve had guys where if you gave even the slightest suggestion of what they could do differently to make sex more enjoyable they’d throw a tantrum and call it nagging that interferes with their performance.

        Dude. I said try circular motions instead of lapping like a dog at a water bowl.

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      3 days ago

      Spoken like a true child. I once got a “This is bad for my self esteem,” when I didn’t want to have sex.

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        2 days ago

        But fucking a guy I don’t like isn’t bad for mine? It’s like they can’t accept being likable is part of their responsibility in a relationship