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minus-squarecobysev@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up54·1 month agoAs much as I like this idea, I feel I need to point out that the fae don’t just take your name, but rather they use it to control you. Somehow, I feel that’s worse than giving up your deadname. Being controlled by your deadname sounds like a nightmare!
minus-squareAmberRaven@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up42·1 month agoI get this, but I also remember seeing a conversation that went something like this. Fae: “Can i have your name?” TF: “j̶̢̧̩̻̯̣̻͓̲̟͉̿̏̔͋̀͌̓ǫ̸̧̨͎͈͖̘͉̝̹̤̝̀̍͛̂̐̒h̷̨̦̩̣̠͖͎̬̭̦̻͌̆̇͜n̶͇̮͔̤̭̐̈́̐͆͆̾͝” Fae, in dread: “What is… this abomination… take it back!!!” TF: “Nope, it’s yours now.”
minus-squarePrunebutt@slrpnk.netlinkfedilinkarrow-up21·1 month agoBut doesn’t that only apply to your real name? I though that the deadname was exactly the opposite to the real one!
minus-squareOf the Air (cele/celes)@lemmy.blahaj.zonelinkfedilinkarrow-up8arrow-down1·1 month agoNot all of us fae are like that.
As much as I like this idea, I feel I need to point out that the fae don’t just take your name, but rather they use it to control you.
Somehow, I feel that’s worse than giving up your deadname. Being controlled by your deadname sounds like a nightmare!
I get this, but I also remember seeing a conversation that went something like this.
Fae: “Can i have your name?”
TF: “j̶̢̧̩̻̯̣̻͓̲̟͉̿̏̔͋̀͌̓ǫ̸̧̨͎͈͖̘͉̝̹̤̝̀̍͛̂̐̒h̷̨̦̩̣̠͖͎̬̭̦̻͌̆̇͜n̶͇̮͔̤̭̐̈́̐͆͆̾͝”
Fae, in dread: “What is… this abomination… take it back!!!”
TF: “Nope, it’s yours now.”
Sounds very Dresden Files
But doesn’t that only apply to your real name? I though that the deadname was exactly the opposite to the real one!
Not all of us fae are like that.