• dkppunk@piefed.social
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      lol same here. I used to HATE dresses so much, skirts too. I eventually got over it, I started wearing skirts because it was easier to have a nephrostomy tube in a skirt than jeans. Eventually I got more comfortable in them and started wearing dresses too.

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    Pink

    I hated pink and anything girly when I was a young tom boyish kid. Now, my favorite every day jacket is pink and I’ll wear the color whenever I feel like it.

    I still prefer green though :)

  • kluczyczka (she/her)@discuss.tchncs.de
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    tight tops. i tried it every now and then, but didn’t like it. now that i am on hrt for a while, i really, really like my upper body.

    i did not know i wanted brests. for a while i even thought my chest wasn’t flat enough, that’s also the main thing that kept me from starting hrt.

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      Hah, I have the opposite issue. I’m on HRT but my chest still feels too flat to my taste. Though when I wear clothing that accentuates my hips and my boobs, I now finally do see somewhat femme curves… not feeling womanly enough though after one year and two months, guh.

      Maybe a bit shitposty, but I want to be reeking of estrogen, I want people to smell it long after I’ve walked past them, like in a comic where someone floats and follows a delicious smell. I want to be gushing in it. I want to be the definition of estrogen and girlboss.

      • kluczyczka (she/her)@discuss.tchncs.de
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        oh, to be clear my breasts are tiny. but tight tops show that there is something, and that is all the difference for me.

        growth can take a while, i’ve been told. the more important it is, that we all find a style we feel good in. i have one combo right now, that makes me feel invincible. hope you’ll find one, too.

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    Floral patterns. Took me a while to find brands that used flowers part of a more alternative aesthetic and less ‘frilly feminine’.

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    Crocs.

    Well, in my case Crocs knock-offs because I don’t pay brand name prices when identical products are a tenth the price.