The incident log for the Red Means No CNC party that’s popular in rat / postrat circles.
Highlights include ‘non-negotiated’ penetration and a woman being dropped on the floor so hard it gave her a concussion.
The incident log for the Red Means No CNC party that’s popular in rat / postrat circles.
Highlights include ‘non-negotiated’ penetration and a woman being dropped on the floor so hard it gave her a concussion.
full disclosure in that i feel i didn’t hold myself to high enough standards in the initial version of that post (I have a lot of personal feelings here obvs but I always try to keep things on the right side of grievance and didn’t think I was entirely successful in it, I think RMN has fairly extensive policies in place which the average kink event probably wouldn’t)
I am divided on how to 1) document social context which is not obvious if you just watch a podcast with someone talking about alignment, but 2) not stick my nose in other people’s business. I can pass on stories of abuse from you and some of the anonymous sources in mainstream media articles.
I think that most kinkersters would recommend playing with these fantasies in a much more structured environment (eg. we rent the AirBNB and leave the door unlocked and a distinctive sign in the window, at some point after 8 pm you arrive and ravage us, or a rigger restrains the center of attention on his/her bed than people take advantage of him/her)