I think makeup is cool, the standard of having to wear makeup is bullshit. When my girlfriend doesn’t wear makeup people ask if she’s sick. It seems like a lot of work.
is she pale and uses it to add color? makes a lot of sense.
i am a very pale dude and people accuse me of being sick my entire life ever since i was a kid. i’ve never really been sick though.
it never occurs to people that being pale is natural or acceptable. it’s always something to mock, and make fun of and seeing as negative.
i just think it’s fucking weird to be so judgemental and hostile about other people’s skin color(s). but i don’t ever really comment or think about on other people’s pigments or lack thereof.
This is one of the biggest reasons I never got into makeup. I remember being a teen and hearing people ask women, “Are you okay?” when they didn’t do their full makeup routine. I thought, “Man, it’s got to hurt to feel like having a natural face means something’s wrong with you. I’d rather go into the world how I am and have that be accepted as normal.”
I had a coworker apologizing for her appearance “What’s the big deal? You’re just not wearing makeup today.”, her and another older coworker were surprised and the older one stopped wearing makeup to work the next day with a smile on her face.
I could honestly see it if it’s like, someone who has known you for 20 years and you make a point of always doing your face to the nines. like maybe it’s genuine concern, changes like that can signal having low energy associated with depression or etc etc etc but then I’m an overthinker and I worry too much.
But it’s like work acquaintances will do it to her when she doesnt do full foundation and this and that and the other thing, which is just so goddamn rude.
I think makeup is cool, the standard of having to wear makeup is bullshit. When my girlfriend doesn’t wear makeup people ask if she’s sick. It seems like a lot of work.
e: this app is weird af though
is she pale and uses it to add color? makes a lot of sense.
i am a very pale dude and people accuse me of being sick my entire life ever since i was a kid. i’ve never really been sick though.
it never occurs to people that being pale is natural or acceptable. it’s always something to mock, and make fun of and seeing as negative.
i just think it’s fucking weird to be so judgemental and hostile about other people’s skin color(s). but i don’t ever really comment or think about on other people’s pigments or lack thereof.
I’m sorry that you suffer for your paleness
If I could give you some of my ruddiness, I would. I usually look like a tomato XD
This is one of the biggest reasons I never got into makeup. I remember being a teen and hearing people ask women, “Are you okay?” when they didn’t do their full makeup routine. I thought, “Man, it’s got to hurt to feel like having a natural face means something’s wrong with you. I’d rather go into the world how I am and have that be accepted as normal.”
I had a coworker apologizing for her appearance “What’s the big deal? You’re just not wearing makeup today.”, her and another older coworker were surprised and the older one stopped wearing makeup to work the next day with a smile on her face.
I could honestly see it if it’s like, someone who has known you for 20 years and you make a point of always doing your face to the nines. like maybe it’s genuine concern, changes like that can signal having low energy associated with depression or etc etc etc but then I’m an overthinker and I worry too much.
But it’s like work acquaintances will do it to her when she doesnt do full foundation and this and that and the other thing, which is just so goddamn rude.
people don’t like change.
they do the same thing if you change your style, your hair, etc.