adr1an
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Bad news mate, your girlfriend doesn’t suffer from migraine 😽
First, the “alpha male” in a wolf pack is a myth. Not entirely the same thing you just said. Also, I’m not writing a sociological study. I am just saying “alpha”, and “sigma/ beta” to make a distinction among kids, with a term that people use. So, even if the basis was wrong, the terms are used and we can’t deny their existence. The guy that wants to be “alpha male” may be very well pursuing a myth. sure. unfortunately, he’s still behaving like that: punching the other kids (to whom he may be categorizing as “sigma/ beta male” even if it were not using the words) for not being male enough. Exercising their desire for a hierarchy. Based on a myth, yes.
There’s a quote about Bell Hooks that says… something something. I won’t use it. Maybe the context is not entirely right.
Grew up in South America. Crying was treated with violence in many occasions. But it was more systematic and dependant on context… Like if the male kid having the tears was a popular one or after a lost football match, then was okay-ish or met with some surprise. If it was any other kid with “lower maleness” (e.g. other sport than football, or a kid that also happened to be sigma, or beta) then there was a high correlation of violence. This was excercised by other males, as part of a ritual to their own maleness. Yeah. Crazy stupid.
Wait until you hear about paper mills… They were here long before LLMs. This can only get worse… Unless, “we” do something. Or journals themselves do it. Not sure what or how, but better audited ways. Even academia itself could start by valuing more the work of reviewers.
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196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•screw the rules 🔥🔥🔥 (read post text for quinny update)English
2·4 months agoThat’s lovely. She’s feeling peaceful with your company :)
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196@lemmy.blahaj.zone•screw the rules 🔥🔥🔥 (read post text for quinny update)English
3·4 months agoAnd there’s no goals (i.e. sex) or speed (kiss “now”). Just enjoy the company, talk through, see what are your feelings, don’t pressure yourself into anything (neither pressure the other.)… Love can be like the blossom, it takes its own pace and is all admirable.
PS. Hope it helps. At least, this is what I tell myself, as I started dating someone recently after some months alone and a very lengthy relationship previously. So, I am kinda “fresh” and not knowing what to do. But this strategy has been paying off, and seems the most natural and healthy…
So that’s how you loose your eye. Good thing you only have yourself to blame, I guess? /s
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Linux@programming.dev•Rep. Finke Was Right: Age-Gating Isn’t About Kids, It’s About Control
62·4 months agoIndeed, I am locking the thread for it’s offtopic. We had already a lot of discussion with systemd accomodating to this law. To OP: feel free to crosspost.
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Linux@programming.dev•Systemd preparing to comply with age verification laws
17·4 months agoPlease keep the discussion polite, and don’t get too much carried away into trying to convince others of your own ideas. Exchange is less than that. And sometimes, less is more. Thanks in advance.
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Linux@programming.dev•Ubuntu's trust problem in 4 concrete issues - verified facts, no FUD
12·4 months agoI believe the community had expressed a lot of valuable ideas here, so I will keep the post. But I am locking the thread because it’s just not information given in good faith. That’s not to say that the points are all wrong, these can be debated. And we did debate. But the infographic itself is border to being just propaganda against a distro that serves well to a lot of users (this is a fact! even if me or you think those users could be served better.)
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Technology@lemmy.world•‘Pokémon Go’ players have been unknowingly training delivery robotsEnglish
3·4 months agoI am one of the lucky 10,000 today 😄
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World News@lemmy.world•Spain denies US permission to use jointly operated bases to attack IranEnglish
1·4 months agoYou didn’t mention kremlin, they were already into it
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Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Ideon: I'm building a self-hosted project cockpit on an infinite canvas (v0.5 update)English
1·4 months agoAs OP said, stars correlated with their own posting on Lemmy. So your affirmation is not absolutely true. It’s all relative… same applies to posting on reddit vs. lemmy… There’s a dilemma between popularity vs. a smaller niche population with ethical concerns.
In a similar vein, PRs might be more in quantity but less in quality when comparing any foss project on github vs codeberg…
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Selfhosted@lemmy.world•Ideon: I'm building a self-hosted project cockpit on an infinite canvas (v0.5 update)English
2·4 months agoYes it is. You will only lose github issues. You need to set repo there as mirror without issues and that’s it, done
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Selfhosted@lemmy.world•I Spent a Year Replacing My Subscriptions by Self Hosting. Here’s How.English
1·4 months agoWireguard allows you to tunnel properly. For example, if you have a low cost vps, self-host Pangolin and voilà. Tho idk about android apps, surely there’s some wireguard clients that work perfectly fine with Pangolin
Oh. Why did they disappear? I didn’t know














Linux Mint Debian Edition is just great for that case. If I were not so much into fedora’s rpm-ostree I would be using that, or MX Linux.