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Big hugs. Thank you for sharing all that. I hope it starts to be smoother soon
Hugs Seagoon 🫂❤️
i have zero interest in the house and little in the garden , first time ever
it’s just not important , it’s not depression, it’s change
but, one foot in front of the other
after a sleep I may be better
It’s ok. Sometimes a rough patch lasts a week, sometimes it’s 10 years. I’ve also got complicated family issues, some shitty people, so I understand how draining and emotionally damaging it can be. It’s so hard. But you are strong and doing all the right things.
YL is dog sitting. Opens the microwave to find mouldy food. Shuts the microwave. She’s not hungry anymore. Now she knows how hard I work.
Yep, that’s a ‘not my job’ situation.
True but she’s staying there for 3 weeks so if she wants to use it she’s gonna have to clean it.
Mild wine buzz on a Sunday night is hitting just right.
headbangs to EDC I mean, same.
I just realised I’ve managed to smear chocolate down the front of my top. I guess I’m just sitting here all chocolatey for the last 8 hours of my shift and hoping I can manage to hide it behind my name badge.
trying out my new phone camera
I like the better horizon guide , no more wonky landscapes
the water was so calm this morning
and I’m playing stuff thru my newly updated legacy windows media player
today it’s Tao of the dead https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hr1vs7M7Nuk
Went to the movies with a mate to see devil wears prada 2 to use up a voucher they had. It was surprisingly fun movie and we caught the train home from one of the new stations. They are pretty cool.
A word of advice: do not perform necromancy on chicken nuggets
Fair point. You just don’t know beforehand exactly which bit of the bird is included in a chicken nugget. The possibility of some seriously gruesome revenants is extreme.
the good bits don’t go in nuggets
What were you hoping the chicken nugget would tell you?
I am intrigued
Making inroads into the Dreaded Sewing Fabric Stash Audit. Have discovered some elastane angelskin lame in scarlet and in silver that I had forgotten I had. And two lengths of not-quite-a-tartan in wool. Time for some lined shalwar pants in not quite a tartan I think. And to finish the warm winter waistcoats in blue/green floral and red/pink floral that I cut out ages ago but didn’t actually make up. Any suggestions for the angelskin?
a feminine red blouse
not sure about the silver
Don’t really have enough of the silver for a whole item - maybe I’ll use it for accents and trimming. Blouse - that sounds like a goer.
Hey, has anyone heard from Seagoon?
here
just trying to take it easy
thanks for asking 🥲
I’m glad you’re here :)
I didn’t realise that I had accidentally blocked you so I couldn’t see any of your replies.
it’s ok
Rainy and cloudy, nothing on today. I had the urge to do some baking. I made scones. So good while warm with jam and cream.
old phone is erased , goodbye old phone
Viking funeral or down the toilet?
smash with hammer then salt water
it’s just a phone, no metaphor here
Had some “friends” make disparaging comments about me being in a relationship, disguised as “them looking out for me”, even after I told them to stop. I know not to take it personally, but I am disgusted. I have barely told them anything about my relationship, so telling someone that they’ll “see” how delusional they are in a few months, that they have a shit track record in dating, and generalising about men is uncalled for.
There’s a difference between looking out for your friends when they’re in a shitty situation and this toxic crap
This is common behaviour amongst some people.
They are jealous you are happy, and the only way to make themselves feel better about being worthless, is making you feel bad.
Once you know the game, you can see it coming a mile away.
Don’t let a bunch of losers make you feel bad or question your choices.
They want you to fail so you can stop exposing them to the reality that no one wants to date them.
And it sounds like there’s some pretty damn good reasons.
Here’s a picture of Gibson to help cheer you up
I have found that another reason jealous haters will say disparaging things to happy people is so they can “own” the happiness. They can’t be happy or make people happy but they can destroy happiness and thus they had power and ownership over the happiness.
This is very insightful.
Thanks. Sadly it’s from experience.
It’s why some people will always create drama or be mean on Christmas, holidays or birthdays. They want to destroy the happiness of the day.
Trump is a very good example of that.
Also known as the ‘fixed quantity of happiness’ theory. Believers feel that before they can have any more happiness for themselves, they first have to take some away from someone else.
The zero sum game
And to take they do mean things?
Yes, that’s the whole point.
Thanks mate.
Gibson the Great
Have they even met him? Even if it happens that a friend doesn’t click with a partner, it shouldn’t matter. This happens in lots of friendship groups and couples. You are happy that your friend is happy. It’s their partner not yours.
No they haven’t! They’re just making baseless assumptions and making an ass out of them and me.
Probs jealousy.
True friends would be happy for you. if they haven’t met the dude (several times) they can STFU.
We here are happy for you :)
Thank you :)
I suspect jealousy too. They haven’t even met the guy!
Glad you saw the comments for what they are!!
oh yeah, they are jealous
and yes, true friends are happy just like we are happy for you.
Be happy. 🙂
Clothes are getting too baggy or are still too small.
Another ten kilos off and I will fit into the clothes I still have from when I lived in Europe
Woo! 🙌🏼
Thank you. I feel so much better too. 🙂 My posture has improved too, maybe it’s because I am feeling good lately, maybe it’s because i have less weight on my spine.
Less strain on the knees and hips as well 🙂glad you are feeling good about yourself, there’s nothing quite like it!
Had to cancel my rspca shift because I woke up fucked.
Feel like an ass hole but I need some rest.
Watched The Matador tonight, it has been on my list for a while. I feel the focus could have been tighten a bit, but if any of the streaming services want to listen to a pitch I bet I could turn it into a series
